"THE FAVOUR"; GIFT VERSUS RESPONSIBILITY.(2)

"THE FAVOUR"; GIFT VERSUS RESPONSIBILITY . (2)
BY OBI PRINCESS FRANCISCA.

OBI PRINCESS FRANCISCA O.

THE RESPONSIBILITY

In the first part of this article, find it here ( https://uniquetendency.blogspot.com/2019/04/the-favour-gift-verses-responsibility.html )

  we established the position of the woman as the channel of favour to the man that finds her. In other words, she is a well packaged "gift" from God to any man he wants to favour. So, that handled the "Gift" part of the favour.
Here we would be building on" The Responsibility" part of the favour. If the woman is the favour gift, it means she is so precious. If she plays such an important part in God's agenda in the life of the man, it definitely means that she is not ordinary. But for her not to be ordinary, there must be something that makes her that extra-ordinary. That "Extra" is what we would be trying to pay attention to in this write-up. That extra is what differentiates a woman that would be good to a man from the one that would be bad. It is that extra that would differentiates a woman that carries favour from the one that lacks it. I wish I can say confidently that that scripture works automatically for every woman. Well, I can't contradict the word of God. But I know that the bible talked about two different women with contradicting value system in the same book of Proverbs. Let's see this women;

The first group;

1a.Proverbs 18:22 A wife that is good  and that brings favour to the man that finds her.
1b.Proverbs 19:14b A prudent wife that is from the Lord.
1c. Proverbs 31:10 A virtuous woman whose price is far above rubies.
1d. Proverbs 12:3a A virtuous woman as a crown to her husband.

The second group; 

2a. Proverb 21:9 A brawling woman. Repeated in the same Proverb 25:24.
2b. Proverb 21:19 Contentious and Angry woman. Repeated twice again in Proverbs 19:13 and 27:15
2c. Proverbs 12:4b A woman that makes ashamed and is as a rottenness in her husband's bone.

If we make the mistake of generalising Proverbs 18:22, we would be denying the other parts of the Proverbs that talked about other types of women.

Even though That scripture is God's planned package for every man that finds a woman, suffice to say that we are not ignorant of how the devil keeps finding a way of corrupting God's original intentions. This is where the "good" intended woman becomes "bad" instead. That is why some men will find a knife instead of a wife. That's how a woman would bring disfavor instead of the favour she has been programmed to carry. It was not so, in the beginning. What went wrong? Alteration of the Original programming. What then is the solution? That is where the responsibility of the woman who is meant to be the favour carrier comes in. This is when it is required of you to go back to your source and get the manufacturers manuscript.
Ask yourself, why your husband is not experiencing favour since he married you even though you are meant to bring him that. What happened to your original makeup? Why are you not a blessing to the man God gave you to? Why has his life experienced reduction and backwardness instead of increase and progression?
You are still single? You are lucky to be reading this right now. But ask your self; do I have what it takes to make the life of the man God would be bringing into my life favourable and progressive? Have I allowed God make me fit to help my future husband chase his tens of thousands or am I going to reduce the one thousand that he is already struggling to chase? Have I been thoroughly furnished unto every good work? Will I be a crown to the man or a rottenness in his bones?
If you don't want to end up becoming the corrupt version of a woman to a man, your responsibility is simple! Let's go to John15:4-5

John.15.4 - Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.
John.15.5 - I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.

Abiding in your source! You can not give more than or any thing other than what you have on your inside or what you receive . Whatever be your source is what determines what you give. You can't give goodness when you fill your life with ungodliness! You can't give purity when you saturate your minds with dirty Materials. How can you give glory when you engage in shameful acts behind closed doors. You will come and be binding demons covering your glory. When they are already your camping partners.
Who and what is your source? What do you give access to your life? What type of friends influences you? What types of books do you read? What type of musics and messages do you listen to? What and who occupies your time?
A woman that brings "good" must have opened her life to goodness!
A virtuous woman is only called that because she has given herself to acquiring virtues to the extent that she accumulates alot of them that it can't be hidden just like a lamp cannot be lit and kept under a bushel.
2Pet.1.5 - And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge;

A woman that is connected to her maker /God , can only give out godliness. Same with the woman that is connected to the devil or the world. She will only give worldliness and devilishness.
Who are you connected to? God, man or the devil? Except you are connected to God, you can't give out what Is God-natured. The life of God should flow into your life to the fullness that out of overflow, it should extend to your household(husband,children and relatives) and to the society at large. Favour is from God and as the Tree, He can only transmit it through his branch (you) that is "Still" abiding.  STILL ABIDING! If you have fallen off or withered from the Tree(God), my dear,you can't transmit the God's gift (Favour). You have nothing to offer! That's why you cannot favour a man. The branch of a mango tree cannot give an apple fruit. A withered branch of a mango tree cannot bear any fruit at all. The leaves will just dry up. With time, it will die completely. That's how applicable it is to our relationship with God.

And young man, before you propose to a woman,find out who she is connected to. First make sure you are connected to the right source. And make inquiries from Your Source to lead you to a woman who is connected and eats from the same source. That is if you desire to enjoy this "Favour" gift.

To understand more this article, read the first part here  https://uniquetendency.blogspot.com/2019/04/the-favour-gift-verses-responsibility.html

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